Who is my True Frnd???

Greatest Enemy??? Who??? Is ur enemy ur Boss or one of ur co-workers?? Rotten neighbors? Terrorists? Unfriendly drivers on the freeway?

Actually, none of them.

You are a greatest and possibly worst potential enemy for urself. No one can ruin your life like you can. No one can pull the plug on your career as effectively as you. No one can wreck your marriage or Life like you. When you criticize yourself or hate yourself, you become your own worst enemy.

Kinicki and Kreitner describe these situations as worst scenarios...In their wrds, if you have a most neglected friend then it is just You. But to have a wonderful life...it is good to understand tht even before u become a frnd to the world....it is important for everyone to realize tht "you" are a true frnd for urself. When you have a high opinion of yourself, you are less afraid. You have confidence. You can make progress. As a good friend to yourself, you stop doubting yourself. You like yourself. You expect you will succeed.When times get tough, you can rely on yourself. When the whole world seems to oppose you, you will have at least one supporter.

Even when the Worldy "society" seem to b tickin against YOU....u r still thr for urself...To become a true friend to yourself, b truthful to u. First set a goal to become your own best friend. With your goal in mind, you can then change a few attitudes. For example, if you beat yourself up for something you did wrong in the past, knock it off. You did what you thought was right at the time. Forgive yourself, decide to never do it again and move on.

If you criticize yourself, maybe someone made you believe these criticisms. Stop agreeing with this person. Atleast be honest to urself. For every critical thought you have about yourself, balance the scales with a positive thought. Why not compliment yourself from time to time? Be kind to yourself. Buy yourself a gift. Pat yourself on the back. If you don't like yourself, you may not have many friends. How can you expect people to like you if you don't like you? Yet as soon you are a true friend to yourself, you will find it easy to have many frndships and become a true friend to the world.

Honesty...Sincerity....Confidence n Being Truthful will tak u to heights...Love urself...cuz at the end of the day it does not cost u a bit!!!

Love myself,
KT!!!